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EDITORIAL: LOVE SHOULD NEVER HURT
I could have taken this many different ways. I could have taken the scientific route, flooded you with statistics, like how 1 IN 4 WOMEN and 1 IN 9 MEN IN UNITED STATES ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES. Or how nearly 3 out of 4 of the women surveyed said that name calling or put-downs on a regular basis constituted domestic violence and 44% suggested that even occasional harsh words counted as domestic violence.
But then, I looked at what is going on right now with Chrihanna and all, and decided to go the best route possible. I want to tell my sisters that they are worth so much more. You deserve so much more than someone that makes you feel worthless. You are worthy of love that is true and painless. You are deserving of an equal level of respect and privilege. You are worthy of being with someone that has the ability to make your life better and not worse. You deserve to be treated like the queen that you are.
And to my fellas, you are deserving and worthy as well. You are worthy of being treated with respect and dignity as well. You deserve to live a life free of chaos and turmoil that comes from domestic violence. You are worthy of being the great man you were created to be. You deserve to live free of abuse, because we all know that men are victims of abuse as well. You are worth so much more than what society sometimes tell you.
Please understand that domestic violence is a serious thing. If you or someone you know is being abused, GET HELP NOW! If you have been a victim in the past, seek counseling because, although the visible wounds have healed, the emotional and mental scars can last a lifetime. Love should NEVER hurt….
Peace and Love,
Toni
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Good post!
Toni since you my girl and I always got your back… lemme break down what love and in-love is for those in confusion… I was asked a long time ago by a good friend what is the difference is… she was victim of very abusive relationship… she thought he loved her… and she always thought it was something she did or wasnt doing..that made him the way he was….
… It is a very fine line between Obsessed or “INSANE” & “IN LOVE”….it really is… Unconditional is not a difference either… because you love friends and family unconditionally too… just different… In LOVE… is breathing and living the others persons spirit… and I do admit some things in both my be similar but the extent of how far you will go to achieve them is where the to differ… Love truly is “GOD” or spirituality…….”GOD” ” IS LOVE” you ever hear the proverb a Child of GOD’s heart should be so embeded in “GOD” that his or her mate will have to seek “GOD” first to find him or her… which in a sense means everyones “IN LOVE” is different..not saying you have to go to church or anything..lol….but because its the Journey “TOO” each other that makes you IN LOVE… The Journey “WITH” each other that keeps you in love… not sure if you can relate that… Keeping that in mind I think we all have that genuine Love for a person down pact… you care about that person… their well being,.. they are naturally a part or influence on your life GOOD or BAD..You Love with your heart… You think heart first… IN LOVE is thoughtless…. effortless… it has no boundaries or limitations…BUT LOVE DOES NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES IS SUPPOSED TO HURT…(Thats why I said its a fine line)..”IN LOVE” can(YES IT CAN) make you go crazy.. where just loving a person can only give your heartache… But neither of the two in any case should required one PHYSICALLY or MENTALLY abuse another… because if either of the 2 types is true… Domestic Violence, Mental Abuse and “LOVE”…… CAN NOT CO-EXIST at the same time in one’s heart AT ALL!
So for any woman out there who is confused because you think he loves you or he says he does… I hope some of what I said can help or hit home… Because my friend for her she never had her wake-up call…. she got called home… RIP…MISS YOU GIRL!
ALLDAY
A friend said this was something to read…So I decided that taking a look would be good….From reading this blog I found that you most defiantly hit many individuals. Whether it be the actually individual being abused or a person knowing someone in the situation. When it comes to love I think many individuals perceive it in a different manner…People tend to give and show love in a form that was given and shown to them.. No matter if it is healthy or unhealthy… Your enviornment has alot to do with how you act and react to anything especially love…However….I have come to understand and truly believe that love is not something that you can look for or search for …It is truly something that must find you…Everything happen for a reason…Yet, somethings are preventable… MANY WOMEN AND MEN are searching for love instead of allowing it to find them…These individuals end up finding pain and agony..With that said…Domestic violence is a DISEASE that noone should ever have to deal with…Never allow another person to strip you of the gifts that GOD has given to you. Realize first and foremost that….WHEN THERE IS NO ONE THERE TO LOVE YOU GOD WILL ALWAYS LOVE U. AND IN ORDER FOR ANOTHER TO LOVE YOU…U MUST FIRST LOVE YOURSELF…
NEVER SETTLE OR BE COMPLACENT IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS TEARING YOU APART…EVERYONE DESERVES MUCH MORE…
Peace….