Check out my first blog in a series I’m calling ‘Don’t Date Him, Girl!’ over on my friend AJ SUPREME’s blog.
The Eternal Baby Daddy
When Lauren London came out and confirmed that Lil Wayne is indeed the father of her soon-to-be born child, I almost had a heart attack. I mean, other than the obvious reasons that Lauren London should’ve been avoiding Wayne like the plague, the fact that he just had a baby last year and also has Nivea knocked up AND has a daughter with his ex-wife Toya should have been a sign to Lauren that she should’ve denied him access to the goodies. Lil Wayne is what I like to call The Eternal Baby Daddy. He’s like a farmer, planting his seeds everywhere with no concept of contraception.
I define The Eternal Baby Daddy as a man that continuously is producing children like President Obama made him the official sperm donor for the entire world. All you ever hear about this type of man is who he has knocked up this time and the stories from his current baby mommas. Now, he isn’t necessarily a bad person persay, but how dedicated can he be to you if all he’s ever doing is going from house to house, state to state, visiting the kids he’s created all over the place?
The Eternal Baby Daddy may or may not have a lot of money, depending on his profession, if he even has a job. Weezy’s one of the most successful rappers in the game right now, so we know his pockets are fat. However, every EBD (Eternal Baby Daddy) isn’t so lucky. Therefore, if you take the chance and get with him, you may end up ‘helping him put’ occasionally when he can’t pay his child support or his kids need this or that. Now, helping a brotha out is by no means a crime, but when it becomes a consistent thing, which it will, then you’re gonna be broke and pissed off.
Of course, the biggest deterrent for dating an EBD is the fact that he’s a baby daddy. This means that he’s going around having unprotected sex on the regular with as many chicks as he can and you’re likely on his list to be his next BM (Baby Momma). Think about that for a minute. This dude is running around in this age of some of the highest HIV/AIDS and STD rates in US History. His thang is probably full of all sorts of cooties and liable to fall off at any moment. Why would you want to run the risk of catching something or being tied to this dude for the rest of your life because he added you to his stable of BMs?
At the end of the day, the EBD has no respect for his own body, so why would he have respect for yours? Sure, he may be fine as hell or whatever other qualities you look for in a man, but he’s never going to have the time for you that you deserve because he’ll be too busy getting paternity tests and picking up his tribe from this place or that. The EBD is too much of a risk on so many levels. That’s why I say DON’T DATE HIM, GIRL!!!!
